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prof_roddy · I had a dream I was at my house sitting on the steps smoking a joint with my friends (I don't smoke at all) and I kept complaining about having an interview and I shouldn't be smoking, but I kept smoking, then my mom walked down the stairs and walked right past me and didn't say a thing, which would NEVER have happened in real life.
nyx · #1 · about 1 month ago ago
'Smoking a joint'= smoking for 'escape'...the 'smoke' is a 'silent companion of ur thoughts'....shares them, makes no judgement, divests u of some of ur stress, comforts u in ur 'powerlessness'...do u feel @ 'lose ends'/ kinda powerless regarding some specific issue...perhaps in need or want of some sorta 'break'/ 'temp escape'?
prof_roddy · #2 · about 1 month ago ago
I guess that makes sense, been kinda trying to have the "moving out" talk with my mom, but she's against it so... made zero progress there
carlgustav · #3 · about 1 month ago ago
It's not >up to< 'mom', young man!, says the archtypal Father (an archetype not allowed in modern (non-tribal) society. You're such a 'good boy' that you don't even know there's a 'rebel' within ... What? ~~>disappointed<~~ that Mom didn't say a thing??! Tribal societies, the father takes the son away ritually from mom...
prof_roddy · #4 · about 1 month ago ago
Lol, well in this tribe, the father runs away from the son and never comes around again
carlgustav · #5 · about 1 month ago ago
and gives him to the shaman/ warrior 'school' to be transformed ffom a 'boy' to a 'man'. In our corrupt foofoo society you will have to find your own initiator, either outside, or within... the one who can say Goodby to Mom. (she doesn't know it, but she also 'wants' [subconscionsly] to be done with you,
carlgustav · #6 · about 1 month ago ago
so she can say goodby to the Mom role... and get on with her own 'individuating' process. [see 'depth psychology' for further references)
carlgustav · #7 · about 1 month ago ago
...yr pt being this 'tribe' is not worthy of the name ....
carlgustav · #8 · about 1 month ago ago
'mom' can represent both your personal mom AND the archetypal Great Mother in the human psyche. The great mother stands, on one level, for the the containing womb of society, which wants to keep you (unconsciously) in its 'comfortably known' confines, for the basic purpose of procreating and keeping things goin on samesame.....
nyx · #9 · about 1 month ago ago
Hey...think we should submit a post on the 'Foofoo Society'...could also call it the 'Freudin Factory'...or just 'F....for Life'....lol...where i come from 'foofoo' is a national dish...yum yum...that the whole 'tribe' has to share....yup not allowed to have 'foofoo' on ur own...but then 'tribes' are kinda overrated if y ask me...
nyx · #10 · about 1 month ago ago
n kinda slightly 'depasse' n 'demode'...otherwise m guess is they would have survived 'the times' better...y know survival of the fittest n all that..ah mean nowadays, whrver y hear 'tribe', y can be sure what follows will be 'gripe'...think what we need is a new model...make that a New Tribe Deal cuz the ole 1 sure aint cuttin it
nyx · #11 · about 1 month ago ago
...n neither is the 'alternative to tribe' for that matter...
nyx · #12 · about 1 month ago ago
@ The Prof: by understandin why ur mum is reactin the way she is, u "might" have a better chance @ 'gettin somewhere' in terms of communication n outcome...think ur mum might be reactin to plain old FEAR- of the rational n irrational variety...fear for u, n fear for her(self)... kind o a delicate matter to address...
nyx · #13 · about 1 month ago ago
For u: fear that 'freedom has to be earned'..that 'u'll go astray'..'end up in a bad way' ..will not be 'loved n cared for the way u deserve'..n for her: fear of 'losin u'...'fear of change'/ of havin to find a 'new purpose n reason for bein n livin'...fear that sthg out there will reach out to jeopardize her 'hard love/sacrifice'
nyx · #14 · about 1 month ago ago
...m sure there's more...dunno, but y might wanna think about that...
carlgustav · #15 · about 1 month ago ago
... y'r never going to 'get her permission' to 'cut the second umbilical cord'. o'course she's afraid of lettin you go. you will help her best by cutting loose and letting her see that you are mature, responsible, etc. But, the dream shows her as >not< freaking out, which his why its more about >your< fear of growing up /out
nyx · #16 · about 1 month ago ago
yup...guess y might be 'right on' with that :)
carlgustav · #17 · about 1 month ago ago
y need to help the real mom become the dream mom so you can become the one who is centered in yourself instead of in her for yr values/freedom. If she would resist your selfdetermination because you >might< become a dissolute pot smoker, you need to not buy into her anxiety ... cuz it can become 'emotional blackmail' vs. yr freedm
nyx · #18 · about 1 month ago ago
bingo 84....ultimately tis more about 'U givin urself the permission'...CHOICE...1 of life's greatest dilemmas...the burden/responsibility of knowing 1 is 'free' in 1's choices, relatively spkg n u to a certain extent...tis easier to believe we don't have a choice, that it's been 'taken away'...but we always do...we do...we do...
nyx · #19 · about 1 month ago ago
....but then the question arises..'Are we ready for...n do we want to?'.....m guess is U would hold the answer....
carlgustav · #20 · about 1 month ago ago
1 mo thng: "having an interview" = having an appointment with adult responsibility. smokin joint = don' wanna grow up/ wanna still have mom makin decisions, disapproving of /regulating 'potsmokin'. two real impulses req'in 'choice'/will. course, you can smoke pot -&- grow up responsibly, when yr making yr own immdiate choices

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